He said, "son, wanna come help me bring in the groceries?"
Son said, "not right now dad, I'm in the middle of a video game".
I said, "I guess I could get up and help you".
He said, "no...no......don't get up. It all works out. I go to the store, buy the groceries, carry them in, put them away, and cook them."
I said, "so I should get up?"